It is vital in
swing lifestyle to set some rules regarding people. Even just a date involves two people, they should spend some time on getting to know each other, so they can avoid to do something make each other uncomfortable. Let along that swing life style is a
threesome dating, which means it is more complicated than normal date. So, when you find the third party, three of you should have a conversation about each other's comfort zone and limits. And depend on this, you can set the rules that make everyone satisfy.